Britannia Bar Cafe

A surprisingly warm cosy place that likes polite custom, so you could take you partner there for a civilised night, definitely a place to cultivate and a cut well above some of the rough trade elsewhere. I think it may be pink friendly but I am sure it wouldn, t disturb anyone else.
You would realistically have to walk down from Rochester station (about 5 mins) as parking might be difficult, though plenty of public spaces nearby