Sonoma Couples Workshops

I don’t say this lightly — this workshop was game changing for my partner and I. The research-​based Gottman method has been a catalyst to changing the dynamic of our marriage. The workshop gave us so many great tools that helped us break through old, destructive patterns in our relationship and create new, life giving ones.
Michael and Marcia are incredible instructors and are really engaging. I didn’t realize when I was signing up how powerful it would be to see real couples demonstrate the tools that they are teaching. As Michael and Marcia worked through their real life conflict with their spouses (who were also really impressive and wonderful), it was so raw and powerful and moving. It truly modeled a new way forward.
Also, privacy is not a problem in the workshop. We were a little worried that it could be awkward to be in a group setting, but since we were able to spread out when practicing specific exercises, it was never a problem.
I couldn’t recommend this highly enough to couples at any phase in their relationship (whether you are doing well or really struggling). If you are considering it, DO IT. It’s worth the cost. It’s worth the time. I’m recommending it to everyone I know.

This short course is tremendously worthwhile, as are the take-​home materials. Marcia Gomez and Michael Basta are fabulous — trained at UC Berkeley and extremely good at what they do. I recommend this workshop to every couple — not just ones who are struggling. What sets this workshop apart from other Gottman retreats is that it is the only one that features the spouses of the therapists. We get to watch Marcia and Michael work through real issues with their spouses in real time (so brave!) and demonstrate good vs. bad communication styles. The setting for this retreat could not be better: In good weather, couples can go outdoors to complete the exercises while going for a little walk or sitting on the lawn. Marcia and Michael give couples plenty of privacy, but are available for support during difficult conversations.