Hometrust

This is a partial copy of my first email I sent to James requesting help.
«Dear James,
I would like information regarding my mom’s trust. My sister has been taking care of all financial matters for a while. I had no reason not to have complete faith and trust in her but recently she stole money from me. She repaid some of it but I do not know if it was the entire amount because this money was back pay from IHSS that she put in for. This was during a time she was upset and was not around for several months. Then she said our mom squandered $ 250,000.00 at the local casinos then she said her life insurance policy went bad. When I asked her to explain she would never reply and since then has avoided me. I have been asking for your contact information for the last three weeks but have only received silence. Last Monday I received a call from hospice wanting me to look at some suspicious papers Lanora had given them pertaining to moms will. I made the mistake of calling Lanora to ask her WTF she immediately got mom took her to her house and next day had mom file a restraining order against me claiming I shook a box of bullets at her. Mom has dementia she imagines many things all the time.»
What I want is transparency concerning moms finances. My sister will not give that. As our Estate planner I thought James could be fair but he seems to have a cozy relationship with my sister who he calls «sis». We had a phone appointment scheduled for Friday at 9am I was ready 15 minutes early waiting for his call. I waited but at 9:12 I gave up. I found out by one of those «Whoops» things in an email he was on the phone with «sis» during this time. He later tried to back pedal saying his conversation with her was because she wanted to assure me that I was still listed as getting 50% of our mom’s estate. Firstly that is not my concern and more importantly I am not a stupid person. I feel I was disrespected and treated like a fool.